Yep I am, had a wisdom tooth out yesterday and it blinkin hurts like mad today, not the tooth (as its not there LOL) but my face. I also resemble hammy the hamster, ooh who remembers tales of the riverbank?
I have had the crappiest week this week. Im not prone to letting everyone know my personal business, because its exactly that, personal, but oooooh this past week you wouldnt believe whats been going on and we all need an outlet dont we.
My oldest daughter (N) as you know has little stinky. well the relationship between N and stinkys dad (G) has been somewhat, on and off for a while.
One week they are madly in love, next the cant stand the sight of each other. Im sure N just doesnt want to be another statistic, hence why she keeps trying to make a go of it, plus she has stinky to consider.
My opinion is better to have no dad than a dad thats a tw*t (sorry cant think of anything politer)........and a complete tw*at he is. Let me just point out that I tend not to judge OR get involved but everyone has their breaking point.
This week N decided to tell G once and for all that its over, she loves him but isnt IN love with him. She hates the rows and that its not good for stinky. What does G do?? Gawd! he is beyond belief and he should know better at 34 or whatever bloody age he is, anyway he starts bombarding her with text messages......think its 60 to date.
Some nice some not very nice at all, for example, he texts her to let her know that hes going to break into her house r*pe her and kidnap stinky.....ok is this a serious case of 'Im a nutter take me away (or should that be 'get me out of here') ? I think so, so you can imagine my response! I have been absolutely terrified all week that he will suddenly show up in the middle of the night, ok maybe you think Im being daft, but doing the work he does, he is prone to just showing up anyway regardless of the hour, day or night.
Well N decided (Im so proud of her!) that enough was enough and she called the police and you know what, they took down every message he sent, took hours but they did it. Since then he has texted her more, apologising in one breath then going into lengthy abuse about her weight (size 14), her parenting skills and much much more, even too personal to post here.
OMG and the funniest one yet, nearly forgot, made me howl with laughter (only because of Gs response), he texted her and told her that was it, he was going to kill himself. So N being the lovely girl that she is called the ambulance service in cardiff (Gs home town). Next text she gets is from him, apparently he was in the pub (?) and wants to know why she called the emergency services, cos they broke his window to get in his house, while of course he was killing himself (down the pub boozing).
The story so far is that N had a visit yesterday from the police who took a statement and want to press charges of harrassment. They also took Ns mobile phone in case he calls or texts again. Would love to be a fly on the wall when G gets a visit. As much as I dont wish harm on anyone, he def deserves all he gets, and I hope that if he gets 'banged' up as they say, he gets the psychiatric (sp?) help that he needs desparately.
Then one day maybe he will be a 'proper' dad (another longggg story) to his kids (yes he has 2 others to someone else) and will be the role model that they need and deserve.
My apologies if this posting offends anyone, but you dont have to read it LOL.